Saturday, 16 April 2016

為什麼我們的祈求不能實現?


我們許多人都有祈求不能實現的經驗。

實踐日蓮大聖人佛法的目的是使在我們日常的生活和我們的宿業能有一個重大的改變。如果這沒有發生,我們都想知道為什麼。

大聖人不是曾承諾我們的禱告一定會有效的嗎?我們所有的祈禱都一定有效,但有時答案是“不!” 因為有時如果我們祈禱的東西,是對我們不好的話,答案就會是“不。”

在佛教中,“源”或“力”是在我們自身生命裏。佛教祈禱是導向內心。我們從我們自己的佛性之內尋求援助。

在佛教中,人類本質上是有價值和良好的。我們擁有佛性。所以佛教的祈禱是充滿了責任和感謝之心

我們的禱告態度應該是要我們在自己的生活裏去嘗試在泥濘的沼澤採集蓮花一樣。向御本尊唱題能打開我們的眼睛讓我們看到蓮花。要能看到我們生命深處是非常困難的,大聖人教導我們祈禱去打開了我們的眼睛,令我們發掘到我們所擁有的寶藏。我們自身的佛性是在生命中深黑暗的倉庫裏.

在我們生命完不僅存著令我們的痛苦的因,同時也包含了解決我們的所有問題的答業。如果你向外祈禱,你的祈求將不會實現.

佛教接受生命會有問題發生這個個事實,當事情發生了,我們痛苦。但我們的苦難能帶來的消除苦難的渴望。每個人都有解除痛苦的慾望。這種願望能激勵我們採取行動,目的是要消除我們的痛苦。然而,因為我們缺少智慧和存著迷妄,儘管我們有誠意,但卻採取了錯誤的行動,。我們因此種下了一個不好的原,而不是一個解決困難良好的因。

如果你的生命充滿了迷妄,無論你多麼真誠或努力的工作你都會不快樂您將繼續在亳不知情下種下和不好的因,並延續你的業力,這將導致進一步的痛苦。你消除你的痛苦的願望會升得更高。這就是為什麼有時,好像你越是試圖改變某種情況, 而那情況就會變得更糟糕。

當我們痛苦時,我們就可以向御本尊面前唱迥祈求智慧,令我們看到我們痛難的根源並做出正確的行動。智慧能使我們能夠打破這個因果的枷鎖. 如果你不求智慧,你不會找到它
 

我們在生活裏時常會發覺在走同一樣的路,作出相同的決定,做同樣的事情。但我們從來沒有醒來, 發現我們永遠在兜圈子,總是回到同一個地方回來。

我們向御本尊祈求智慧和力量,令我們能解決我們的問題,。我們應該有那種堅定的祈求去達成願量

Friday, 15 April 2016

相處之道

有人曾經問戶田先生:

「 我與先生相處不來 ,是要繼續忍耐呢?還是分開好呢?」

戶田先生:「我不能插手管夫妻之間的事...,不是勸你不要分手,也不是叫你要分手,想告訴你的是,如果不超越必須與這種會讓你痛苦的丈夫在一起的宿業,即使分手了,日後仍然會遭遇同樣的痛苦。如果是這樣的話,那跟現在的丈夫又有什麼不同?」

父母感情融洽當然最好。可是雙親離異也不能斷言小孩就會變壞, 反而,很多人 就是 從這種困境當中茁壯成長。

關鍵在於要站在自己的立場,深深自省 ,徹底挑戰自己的人間革命,然後再做決定。只要擁有強盛的信心,最後必定獲得幸福。不管遇到什麼事都不退轉,只要抱持進取、貫徹廣宣流布布的信心,最後一定會獲勝。只要明白這一點就夠了

萬一離婚了就不要耿耿於懷,就當作得到寶貴經驗,比以往更認真廣布即可。 同時也希望週圍的人給予溫暖 的關懷。即使成為單親家庭也不必感到寂寞,要抱著『可以 結交更多友情』 這種寬大的胸襟來面對人生。
夫妻之間 最重要的是愛情與慈悲, 此外 ,就看雙方是否能夠一起唱題,追求最高的人生目的與幸福。

雖說是夫妻,兩人原本也是外人,所以 要互相忍耐,努力理解對方,否則家庭無法圓滿。

共同生活當中,要並肩保護家庭,努力工作、讓小孩受教育等等,都是『為人盡心盡力』的作業,這當中需要靠『忍耐』兩字。

『幸福』要有忍耐作為後盾。很多人夢想能夠擁有不用忍耐的幸福,那畢竟是夢, 是童話世界,是幼稚、安逸的人生 ,所以,才會有許多夫妻關係破裂。 原本 一心想追求幸福, 卻淪於不幸。

攜手努力 『一起建設家庭吧!』彼此忍讓『 一起前進吧!』 夫妻要有這樣的共識,才能孕育真正的愛情。愛情是要歷久彌深的, 無法加深愛情,只能停留在『喜歡、不喜歡』的層次。

應讓家庭的氣氛明朗。下決心只要有自己在, 不論何時整個家都會明朗起來。只要自己成為太陽,世上便無陰霾;只要有一個人成為太陽,就能照耀全家。
       
           譯自《大白蓮華》 /聖教新聞

Thursday, 14 April 2016

妹妹 - Dec. 2015



昨天晚上我和妹妹做完勤行之後,我去樓下gym 做運動一小時,回家後竟然見妹妹还在唱題.

原來我走了後,她还continue 唱了一小時題目,我对她説,你如果以后都是这样信心,你將會越來越好

話口未完,她今天又得到了大生意
其實看一个人現在修行的恣態,已可知他未來!这是因果法則!

賣屋 - 很好的体驗

以下是我今早在多倫多開會聽到很好的体驗:

賣屋    
                     
"最近我遇到一個問題, 係需要我一定要去解決同跨越; 退縮或者唔理佢係無可能, 因為我覺得今次係無得返轉頭,  唯一就係向前將問題解決, 但正正係咁, 今次體驗令我大大加強咗對日蓮佛法嘅信心

事緣係咁, 由於計劃不足, 經驗不足, 而且初初係無咁緊急, 加上外在因素, 後來我發覺自己急需在好短時間內賣出間屋, 因為如果達唔到目標, 結果就係好大嘅經濟損失, 兩萬元的首期

間屋已經放上市場出售, 星期六日重安排咗開放日, 都有好多人來睇樓, 好少通過預約睇樓, 開放日俾我好壓力, 因為我日日都要執好間屋, 要執到見得人; 過咗兩個星期都無好嘅出價, 我開始好擔心, 而且開始覺得無希望
我記得讀過御書"法華經兵法事"裡面一句有關遇到困難時應有嘅態度, 後來我知道"心唯貴耳"係指”對妙法嘅信心係決定勝負嘅根本" 於是我將問題交俾御本尊, 祈求一定要搵到解決方法

我開始加強題目, 而且決意一定要將煩惱跨越; 當時有買家出價, 不過價錢並未達到我預期. 到咗第三個星期我開地區座談會時將問題向其他會友講, 佢地鼓勵我, 我要好感謝大家嘅題目, 我繼續唱唸確信嘅題目, 祈求要遇上合適嘅買家

到咗星期四, 我收到一個短訊話下午一時有人睇樓, 於是早上唱題時我祈求依個一定係合適嘅買家, 而且向著合我心目中一個合理嘅價錢祈求
睇完樓後, 下午繼續又唱題, 果然有好消息, 買家要求同日晚上七時再睇過, 於是收到短訊後我當然繼續又唱題, 且. 到晚上十點,買家同意用我要求的價錢成交,重無任何附帶條件, 如按揭或成交日

我可以決定成交日, 對我嚟講真係一個解脫, 因為另一方面我新屋要如期成交, 所以我真係覺得好妙; 無晒壓力無晒顧慮, 我終於可以鬆一口氣
依個可算係第一個真正考驗我信心嘅煩惱, 因為我一定唔可以退縮, 只可以面對同跨越佢

Experience by: Jay Toronto Young Mens Division - Dec. 6, 2016

如果祈求对自己有利而他人有害會不會成功?


有朋友問: 如果祈求对自己有利而他人有害會不會成功?


如果祈求对自己有利而他人有害,那一定不會成功.
但為了祈求而努力唱題,出來的结果一定是对自己好而又不害人的。

我们的佛法是要令自己及他人都幸福
如果我们的祈願是对别人不好或有害的
那麽願望不會達到

而且佛法是因果的法則
一念对別人有害
那我们會種下惡恩
恶果會回報自己身上

這因果法則在我们勤行經典內我们毎次勤行要唸三次
可知其重要性

但是如果你確信御本尊,你為了祈求努力唱題
御本尊帶出來的结果一定是最好的

有一位日本婦人,她愛上了有婦之夫,决心唱一百万遍題目,要和那男人结婚
唱完百万遍題目之後,突然醒悟,不再祈求要嫁那男人
之後她認識了一个十分好的男人,和他结了婚並得到幸福!
這就是妙法的力量!

How to hold a successful meeting

Below are conversations on how to run a successful meeting:


[23/11/2015 2:05 pm] Tina Chan: Lydia, Peggie, I also want to learn more how to make the class more interactive, so far our class is more listen and we sometimes we also 懇談 but still not too satisfactory

[23/11/2015 2:32 pm] Lydia Leung😊
  • Try to make them laugh 
  • Sense of humor does a great job😄
  • Start from yourself 
  • Say something of interest to everyone 
  • Your own experience or others 
  • Say it with enthusiasm in a clear voice 
  • Sharp  n to the point
  • Don't drag 
  • Ppl don't have much patience these days unless u strike their cords
  • Having said the above the most important thing is for us to chant for a happy successful gathering
  • Lecture should be kept short
  • Try Not to read toooooo much from print outs
  • If possible speak main points stead of reading 
  • Invite +pick someone and ask if they have experience to share
  • Ppl love to hear experience s
  • Try to make your topics lively
  • 懇談may sound a bit too serious 
  • Make it seem like a friendly gathering
  • Your sincere concern n care about members well being n happiness is key to success
[23/11/2015 2:37 pm] Lydia Leung😊
A Japanese senior member gave a talk in a big gathering
When asked questions there was only one response 
He said he knew he would only get one response 
BECAUSE he only paid one home visit 
N the response came from that one person!!!!!!

[23/11/2015 2:38 pm] Lydia Leung😊: Tina glad u asked
Take action n u will get a A happy lively successful meeting😄😃😀

家人和婚姻宿業

有一個案想跟大家分享:

有位中年女仕,是高級智識分子,生活也挺規律的,從沒有煙酒等坯習慣。一天,突然感到全身不適,關節腫脹,全身酸痛,屢醫無效。後來經朋友介紹,用了「生机飲食」即是吃大量未煮熟的蔬菜水果,積極執行。但是情況不但沒有解決,反為更差,全身冰冷,痛楚加劇。在絕望之餘,好在有家姐在溫市,勸她停止這種療法,並倍伴她運動,吃溫熱的食物,

[03/11 11:32 am] Lydia Leung😊: 她撐著拐仗來探家姐,大家多了時間講心事。這妺妹一向與母親關係不好,想起就不䦕心。雖然母親已去世,但她還是耿耿於懷。家姐好言相勸,並悉心照料,她感到十分溫暖。「其實這事已經過去很久,何必難為自己呢?」她突然有智慧起來。從佛法角度看,父母是自己選的,一定有其理由,不會無緣無故的。能夠成為親人,定是宿緣深厚,應好好相處,消除業障,才會幸福。如果長期因為対方做了些自己不認同的事,或不好聽的説話,更要積極自我檢討,以免變成毒素,致令自己得上頑疾。

她想通了之後,痛楚已減軽,加上適當的治療,現在已經沒有痛楚,關笻也沒腫脹。其實她的病是由心結造成,解鈴還要系鈴人,自己要有智慧。
把這充滿智慧的法門- 佛法- 傳開去吧!

[4/11/2015 3:37 am] Lydia Leung😊: 什麽叫做婚姻宿業?

[4/11/2015 3:37 am] Lydia Leung😊: 婚姻宿業就是我们的伴侣令我们痛苦,甚致要離婚!如不能轉换,就算離婚,再遇到的人也是相同的現象,只是換湯不换薬!

[4/11/2015 3:39 am] Yuen Ting: 夫婦間由「戀愛」開始,變为「努力」,接着「忍耐」,轉为「灰心」而最後到達到「感謝」,中途一切纠葛,都会變成幸福的点缀。
       池田大作会長指導
[4/11/2015 3:39 am] ‪+852 6687 2033‬: 我地係咪點擇婚姻宿業都會出來?
[4/11/2015 3:40 am] Yuen Ting: 今次祈世的体驗剛也講得好清楚。
[4/11/2015 3:48 am] Lydia Leung😊: 但努力佛法可改變任何不好宿業

如何对話 - Oct 2015


以下是我和英国會友的討論.最後兩段除了講佛法之外,同人對話也可用來參考. 很多時我們只管自說自話, 完全不理會別人反應, 便會得不到最佳效果.

[28/10 6:06 pm] Stella英国: Hi Lydia, thank you the message.

[28/10 6:29 pm] Stella英国: 最近,鼓励個朋友,佢姐姐肺癌末期。過去一年多,經過不同化療也無法將癌细胞打死。佢姐姐也是我好朋友,我曾用佛法鼓勵她們,可能說話太直接,相反,講太多吧,佢哋覺得我 好 “阻訂”
後來,我自己分柝,她們一家人病業重,在過去兩年家人先後媽媽和大姐姐都因癌病逝,現在輪到第二個女。我想是因為這個家没有這個佛法維護,家人也不肯相信。
後來,我又想,佛法並不是人人聽得入耳,也需要講缘份。最後,自己送題目她,一家病業轉重轻受。

[28/10 6:44 pm] Christine英国: 是的,有时講的多别人会覚得很煩。其實每個人与佛都講縁份的.

[28/10 7:06 pm] Lydia Leung😊: 你的慈悲己播下佛種
他曰有缘便會發芽
我们在佛法的努力不會白費

[28/10 10:23 pm] Stella蔡月明英国: 但願如此!

[28/10 11:36 pm] Lydia Leung😊: 也是時的問題,但己下種,將來她—定會再遇这佛法,我们用心便可。

最初前軰教我,同人講佛法,一定要看別人反應,不要自説自話,看見别人没反應,或開始不耐烦,便要適可而止

所以我會祈求自己有智慧和别人佛法对話,並好快知道別人感受和他的問題,而自己的話會令人聽到舒服,開心及得到鼓勵


Tuesday, 12 April 2016

$10 (十塊錢) April 12, 2016

my dear friends and family,

tonight at my son, kevin's chanting meeting, we talked about the importance of appreciation.

later i drove a member back home.  on the way, she said she has to appreciate more instead of just asking for benefits.  so i said: yes, the more you appreciate, the more you get.  

$10

afterwards, this same member and i went to a supermarket together.  as we were walking out of the supermarket, suddenly a lady came after me and gave me back $10 which dropped out of my pocket.

Actually this kind of  incident happened to me twice  when i was travelling alone in South America (a notoriously dangerous place for travellers)  a few years ago:

1. As i was getting out of a taxi in a bus station in Argentina, I droped a roll of money from my pocket without realizing it, and got on a coach ready to head for chile.  a guy suddently rushed up onto the coach and gave me back the roll of money which fell out from my pocket!!!

2. when i was in a park in Chile, i dropped some money on the floor after paying for a gift,  a guy next to me was quick to tell me about it and gave me back my money.

having been told about my story is one thing, and to have seen it with your own eyes is another.  tonight  this member witnessed the actual incident when the $10 was handed back to me.  she is very encouraged and will appreciate more in life.

glad to share.

lydia


今晚在我兒子的座談會,我們談到了感恩。

後來我開車送一位會友回家。在路上,她說她以後要多感恩,而不是僅僅祈求福運。我說:是的,你感恩越多,你會得到越多。

$ 10

後來,我和她一同去了一家超市買東西。當我們走出超市時,突然一個女仕從後走來我身旁,給$ 10,說是從我的口袋跌出來的。

其實同樣的事件,在我幾年前在南美旅遊時發生過兩次:

第一次是我在阿根庭車站下的士時一卷錢從我的口袋裡跌出來。當時我沒發覺, 然後上了一架旅遊車準備去智利, 突然一位男仕追上旅遊車,給回我從我的口袋裡掉出來的一卷錢!

第二次是當我在智利的一個公園裏買禮物,付錢時丟了一些錢在身後地上旁邊一個男仕很快就告訴我,並拾起並把錢給回我。

聽我談我的故事是一回事,但用自己的眼睛親眼看到又是另一回事。今晚這位會員目睹了實証:  真有人拾起$ 10还給我。這對她是非常大的鼓勵和會令她更加識感恩

Friday, 8 April 2016

Fishes

my dear friends and family, 

Andrew has left for hong kong.  before he left he asked me to help him feed his fishes
I normally dont care much about his fishes
However buddhism teaches me to respect life so I start feeding them everyday
Watching them eat is fun
They make a lot of noise when eating 嗒嗒声好有趣
I begin to enjoy this10 min feeding time everyday
Sitting in the backyard,watching them eat, enjoying the sun, the quiet moment, the fresh air, i feel very relaxed n at peace.
often, when we help others we end up helping  ourselves😀


Andrew在香港,他叫我每天替他餵鱼。本來我不喜歡做,但佛法教我要尊重生命,所以每天我開始去餵它們。看到它們高興的吃,而且嗒嗒声,好有趣
每天坐在花園十分鍾,吸收陽光空氣,看着鱼兒游來游去,覺得寧靜,舒暢
正是為人點燈,明在眼前

Thursday, 7 April 2016

"Talk" to the Gohonzon - theory and practice - jan. 2007


below is an email i sent to a member in 2007 expressing my views on the best way to encourage new members.

dear                ,

tks for sharing the info.  yes, you are right in quoting from the gosho, etc.

i hope u realize  that you are talking from a very intellectual and educated level.  also, yes, it is 100% true in what you have quoted, and also i agree with what you have said about manifestation of the law in ourselves.

however, for people who have reallly struggled (i mean to the point of desperation), it would be most helpful to talk to them and encourage them, in ordinary language, translating the difficult theories into ordinary daily language to help them understand. say things that will be pleasing to their ears (this is also from the hoben chapter)

actually i am talking about myself.  at the time of my desperation, if you quote me all the difficult theories, i can honestly tell you that i would not be interested.  what people at this stage want to hear is that they will be helped, and everything will be OK.

yes, you can chant and chant, and you DO NOT see the results, i had this experience.  when i chanted for..............,  i did everything i could but nothing turned up, i suffered soooo much, to the extent that i knelt on the floor (i was in a hotel then), cried my heart out and asked the gohonzon'WHAT HAVE I DONE WRONG, WHAT HAVE I GOT TO DO, WHAT HAVE I GOT TO CHANGE, AND WHAT HAVE I GOT TO LEARN' to achieve my goal.

on return to hongkong, all the answers came (yes, you are right), some of the answers came from friends and familes, telling me that i have the wrong focus, i was too snobbish, etc., and that i have a lot to change and learn.

without this asking, i would not (or it will take me much much much longer) be able to achieve my goal in a reasonably short span of time.

sometimes, when we chant for an apple, you get an orange, and without hesitation, you would turn the orange away not knowing that you need all the vitamin c's from the orange, it is at this time that we need to ask the gohonzon (the highest intelligence, or our higher self) as to why we get the orange.  in this way, both our wisdom and faith will spring forth.

if we tell ordinary people, when they are in deep trouble, that their suffering can be a source of nourishment for others, (or even congratulate them for having this suffering) they are not going to like this at all.  yes, it takes people with deep deep faith and trust to be able to appreciate this, or after they have gone thru their suffering and looking back to realize that this is the case.

of course, i know that buddhism can help us in our daily lives, this is 100% true, but there is also a formula (again, because you are very much into theory, you do not like to hear me using the word formula), but, we do need to know how to apply this mystic law in our daily lives to help ourselves, and, from experience, a lot of members i have come across DO NOT know how to do this, that is why i am very anxious to tell others what i have learned in my years of practice.

when u say 'why should we even get what we chant for?"  buddhism says that life is to be enjoyed, we have every right to be happy.  and whatever that can bring us happiness, we can chant for and get it.  yes, with our buddhism teaching, we know that the end result is that, because we can feel the power of chanting, and of the mystsic law, and after getting what we want, we are soooo happy that we would like to share the joy with others, to tell them about chanting.

yes, u are right in saying that when we chant for something for ourselves, but the intention is to help others, THEN YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT MUCH MUCH FASTER.  when i chanted for a husband, other than wanting a husband for myself, i also wanted to use myself as a living proof of this buddhism to encourage other women with relationship problems, i was very very determined to do this.  i had a cocktail reception in hongkong and invited almost 200 members to attend, and i was so pleased to tell u that a lady, an sgi member came to me at the cocktail and said, "lydia, my husband deserted me and our son, i have lost everything, but seeing u, i have hope"

dear___________, whatever i am saying to you now, its all from my real life experience.  i am glad i can share with you.



lydia

Words, dreams and thoughts - Jan. 2007


Below is info i received from a friend in hong kong in 2007, after almost 9 years, what she says are still true, sooooo true.

Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts are shaping the events of the future

What you speak about, you can bring about

If you keep saying you can't stand your job, you might lose your job.

If you keep saying you're always broke, guess what? You'll always be broke.

If you keep saying you can't trust a man or trust a woman,you will always find someone in your life to hurt and betray you.

If you keep saying you can't find work,you will remain unemployed.

If you keep thinking you can't find someoneto love you, or believe in you,then this thought will attract moreexperiences to confirm your beliefs

Turn your thoughts and conversations aroundto be beneficial, positiveand power-packed with faith, hope and action.

Don't be afraid to believe that you can have what you want and deserve.

Watch your "Thoughts,"they become words;

Watch your "Words,"they become actions;

Watch your "Actions,"they become habits;

Watch your "Habits,"they become character;

Watch your "Character",for it becomes your "Destiny"

So.......
  To prevent any obstacle.......
GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!
every minute you live!!

Your mind vs your heart - by my son Kevin nov. 2005


Dear family, 

   I was chanting just now when I have that strong acknowledgement that our minds and hearts (well this is my perception) appear to be two seperate entities, both very strong and very empowering. 

     The core of karma and negativity, in my case, appears to be all the clogging of bad and irrelevant thoughts in my mind, and tends to accumulate as time passes by. These accumulated thoughts exerts energy and forces (whether it is positive or negative), as a result controlling your whole body including your heart , which is why there are so many 'self-help' books that sought to explore our minds, our conscience, how to overcome the negative forces in our mind etc. The essence of buddhism and practice, the sense of "sprituality", hence, comes to play a very significant part in relation to the notion.

   My mind has always been a very very empowering and overwhelming agent to me. It controls my thoughts, my actions, my behavior, in short, it controls everything of me, e.g, my addiction to cigarette smoking is the perfect example. 

Nichiren Daishonin once said, your mind is most unreliable thing on earth, to be honest I totally agree with him. The significance of chanting and practicing our buddhism, hence, is to learn how to realize those thoughts and to implement more positive ones where positive forces and energy can be brought forth as a result.

 Listen to your heart is another thing that I realize I dont normally do. When people say "listen to your heart" or "follow yor heart",  what is this it? to let go of your mind and to start listen what your heart has got to say? 

When we chant, I was told, we have to focus on the word 'myo' and listen to your daimokus. The focus takes away all your thoughts  and to gain serenity out of chanting, well, the idea here, to me, is a way to start getting in contact with your heart, and today I really had that strong feel of connection. I just cannot believe how much my heart has got to say to me!!! You know maybe this is why people who tend to think less are happier, its not because they are stupid, but maybe empowerment is less significant to them, and/or there is more of a collaboration between the heart and mind. 

      The idea of which follows which, from a positive perspective, appears to be a chicken and egg question but really to learn how to let go of those clogging thoughts is important, because those thoughts can haunt  you for lives. Moreover, If you have a good heart, you own the most pure thing on earth, which is why when we practice buddhism we learn how-to "uncover the hay and dust and get the real pearl out"... (its a chinese saying that everyone including Kit che says). We can all be buddhists if we have a pure mind and heart because wisdom  derives where pure mind and hearts enable to us to think, see and feel things more clearly. 

     This may all seem very abstract, but chanting sure saves me alot of good bucks from buying those "self-help" books. We dont need help, we need to be enriched and to be enhanced!

Wednesday, 6 April 2016

How to chant for an ideal job - March 2010





have faith, trust in the gohonzon, trust that you will have a good future, and start chanting for happiness  and an ideal job which has the following elements: 


  1. enables you to contribute to kosen rufu,
  2. a job which will help you grow,
  3. enables you to gain satisfaction,
  4. good salary
  5. that you will appreciate and be appreciated,
  6. with good support from seniors and colleagues,
  7. easy transportation
  8. good and nice environment
  9. the company should have steady and sound financial standing
  10. chance for promotion
 
cheers
 
lydia

My heart is full of Joy! 我心充滿喜悅! Oct 2013



Hi
 
tonight my sister and I arrived at the SGI Toronto cultural centre in Caledon - 1 1/2 hrs from Toronto to attend a Chinese training course for four days.  this is the main purpose of my coming to Canada - to attend this conference.
 
加拿大硏修會
 
今天我和妹妹來到加樂登中文硏修會,參加四天的中文硏修.

到達後我心充滿喜悅。這中心是池田會長送給加拿大會友的禮物. 會址非常漂亮,寛敞,設備完善,更有美麗的住宿套房。

我深覺得能有機會參加真是很大的福運。我心存感激。
 
i can still remember that back in 1996, when I  attended this conference for the first time , I was feeling low, having had yet another broken relationship,  and my life was at its rock bottom.  with continual effort in our Buddhist practice, now, my life has been completely transformed.
 
as I arr at the centre at about 7.30 pm, my heart was full of joy. this centre had been donated by president Ikeda.  it's beautiful, clean, smart, spacious with nice accommodation for participants, and lots of comfortable meeting areas for members to share and encourage each other. (pls see photos)
 
its such a GREAT fortune to me to be able to attend this training course.
 
會議主題是: 
成佛幸福路
功德如花開
 
the theme of this meeting is
 
 "if you follow the fortune path to Buddhahood:
 your  benefits will be like blossoming flowers"
 
after chanting, the leader read to us President Ikea's message and I am sharing a couple of sentences which are so meaningful and encouraging:
 
"regardless of the situation you are in, its important to keep pressing forward with courageous faith.  Always live your life in bright spirits with stout-hearted optimism.  Faith is thegreatest driving force for victory in life.
 
Those who uphold the Mystic Law (nam myo ho renge kyo) can create the most glorious history when faced with themost severe trials and hardships"
 
以下是池田會長賀詞中​的鼓勵:
 
在人生旅途上,我們會遇上煩惱之幽,和逆境之山。這就是為何我們在途中遇到任何苦難時,也要決意要抱持著永不敗退的堅毅之心
will share more with you soon.  have to go to bed now.  tomorrows wake up call is 7.15 am, but I so much look forward to all events forthcoming.
cheers and good night.
lydia

What is the Mystic Law? - Feb. 2014


what is the mystic law?

in simple terms, the mystic law is the law of life, the law of the universe.

what is the law of life?  it could be very simple or complex.  in short, everything that happens in life (whether its lives of human, animals, plants or planets) is governed by a rhythm, or a law: which includes time (24 hrs in a day, 7 days a week, 365 days per day), seasons (spring, summer, autumn and winter), cause and effect, birth, old age, sickness, death and so on, and on.

life is very mysterious. we know there is power of gravity, wind, fire, tsunami, which is the power ofthe earth; but we cannot see these powers with our eyes, and even scientists fail to understand theorigin source of energy behind: but we all recognize its power. 

take our bodies for example.  when we cut our skin, it will heal.  we know the process, but why??? what is the energy and force behind??? look at animals, birds fly south in the winter to stay away from the cold (without any compass), bears in the north turn urine into protein to feed themselves during hibernation in the winter (NO one can explain HOW it could be done).  since we cannot explain the WHY and HOW, which answers can be beyond our human minds at this moment, we call it MYSTIC.  yes, life is mystic, and buddhism call it the mystic law.

all living beings on earth and in the universe are made of the same elements, scientists call them 'star dust", chinese call them the five elements: metal, wood, water, fire and earth.  it is to be noted that  we are one and part of the  universe and contain within our own lives all the power that theuniverse has.

the universe exists in a certain rhythm, the way earth revolves around the sun, and the moon aroundthe earth, there are 24 hrs per day, 7 days per week,1 2 months in a year, all follow a rhythm.   this rhythm or path  MUST be correct , or all planets will crash with each other. 

if we follow correctly the rhythm of the universe, then we will be able to do the right thing at the right time.

for example, farming.  if we can sow seeds in the spring, continue to fertilize, water in thesummer, then in autumn, we will be able to get good crops for harvest, and let ourselves and thesoil  rest in the winter, ready for another seeding in the next spring.    if we can follow this rhythm, then (discounting human destruction such as soil contamination, global warming, etc)  we are sure to have good harvest.

in daily living, there is also a certain pattern.  if we sleep at night, wake up in the morning, then go to work or do whatever activities,  and rest again at night, then we will have better heath.  violate this pattern, stay up at night and sleep during day time, we will get sick.

statistics show that people who always have night shifts are more likely to have cancer.

eating regularly, breakfast, lunch and dinner will also promote health.  skipping one will definitely have negative impact on our bodies in the long run.

in winter, we put on more clothes to keep warm, and in summer we put on less

these are all basic laws of life, which seem to be easy, however, lots and lots of people, for various reasons, violate this pattern, and end up getting sick or misfortune.

chanting nam myo ho renge kyo (nam means devote, myoho is the mystic law, renge is the lotus flower - which symbolizes cause and effect at the same time, and kyo is sound)  carries a rhythm, such rhythm can put us back with the rhythm of the universe (some people call it 'be one with theuniverse' ) . as a result, we will bring forth our highest potential and power  (buddhism calls it buddhahood - which means wisdom, courage, compassion, life force, peace and happiness) and will be able to do the right thing at the right time, and meet the right people and say the right things, thereby life becomes MUCH easier, we will be happier, healthier and very fortunate.

of course, there are more examples and more complex explantions, but i have tried my best to explain in simple terms and words.

hope it helps.

glad to share :)

lydia

Climbing Mountains - July 2007



hi there
 
today after attending another lecture on business management with andrew (and i am going to share some wonderful views with you tomorrow), i read a passage from the 'national geographic' which talks about exactly the same subject i learned today, and it reads as follows:
 
the following is from a mountain climber who tackles  peaks in alaska, canada, tanzania, kenya and the congo:
 
"every ascent gave me the joy of accomplishment.  each had something to teach.  lesson no. one: how to 'handle situations'.  learn to be calm in the face of chaos.  
Lesson no. two: perseverance. 'if you have to crawl on hands and knees, you are going to get there'.
the last lesson: observation.  pay attention to details, the weather, your gear and every step you take.
 
climbing mountains stretches you physically and mentally.  you tap reserves you never knew you had.  doubt evaporates.  you know who you are and what you can do.
 
THE SECRET OF HIS ABILITY TO DO THE IMPOSSIBLE - 'TRUSTED HIMSELF'.
 
this is exactly what i have been taught by my buddhists teaching in the last ten years: stay calm, peservere and trust.  trust in yourself, trust in your own ability, trust in the abundance of the universe, trust that you will have a good future, etc......., trust and all that you trust will materialise. very useful, right?
 
cheers