wrist pain 手痛

[05/10 5:08 pm] Lydia Leung: Hi sharing the most recent story with u:
i am now in toronto.  during the past ten days, i went to PEI canada to enjoy the peace, serenity, scenery and seafood and had a great time. 

On the last night of my stay in pei,  I wanted to see the at stars n went outside the cottage where i stayed.  It was pitch dark.  I missed a step n fell on the floor.  Then I felt a terrible pain on my left wrist . It was so bad that I had to sit on the floor for 10 min n couldn't move.  my left wrist was badly hurt. 

On return inside I found I couldn't move nor raise my left arm at all. The next day i had to drive 1 1/2 hrs to airport n fly back to Toronto.  i then chanted and asked myself:  What should I do? and what can i do?  At that time my sister Yvonne whatsapped me n I told her.  She started to chant for me. 

That night I had to sleep with my sports clothes on cause the pain prevented me from changing.  I put some pain relief plaster on n used my LED light belt to help cure.
I did not panic cause I knew I had to handle the situation and my years of Buddhist practice gave me faith n confidence. 

The next morning I used my one hand n mouth to pack my bags,  suitcases n clean the cottage.  Then I used one hand to drive to the airport,  refuel the car ，return the rental car. I got wheelchair service and ppl we're very very nice. I arr Toronto OK and my sister picked me up. 

The past few days I rubbed my wrist with chinese oilment n plaster,  did swing arm exercise n now I am 60% healed. 

What I want to share is: with our chanting n faith,  we need not panic when facing a situation,  instead pls chant n ask ourselves: what can and what should I  do?  And be sure that everything is OK.  this is what my 20 years of practicing nicherin buddhsim has taught me.

[05/10 5:15 pm] Lydia Leung: I still couldn't use my left hand but i can cope
I regard this as a blessing cause if I hurt my right hand then I can't do  anything, and will get stuck in PEI . I thank the gohonzon 🏻

和大家分享最新体驗:
離開pei前一晩，我想出去看星星。怎知因為外面太黑，我跌到了。之後左手手腕非常痛，痛到我坐在地上不能起來。十分钟後，我勉强起來返回屋內。左手已痛到不能動。剛巧二姐whatsapp我，我告诉她，她很担心並為我唱題。
雖然第二天我要開1 1/2小時到机場飛返多倫多，而我左手超痛，痛到提手也不能，但我並不担心，有信心一切會解决！
我只是想: 現在我應怎樣做？有什么我可以倣？我有信心！
那晚因手不能動，不能更衣，我只好穿着去街衫上床！
笫二天早上，我用右手和囗收拾所有行李，清潔cottage ，並用一隻手開車，入油，到机場还車及check in. 我介請了輪椅服務，机埸人員对我好好平安到達多倫多！
之後我每天替自己治療，揸薬酒及貼止痛膏布，現在巳好了60%🏻🏻🏻🏻
雖然現在还有痛，並不能用左手，但我好開心，因为如果我傷了右手，那就真是惨了！做乜都唔得呀！
我十分感謝御本尊🏻。还就是轉重輕受了！
想同大家講的是:我们唱題時要有信心，遇事時不會徬徨，因为知道事情一定會解决，一切就會迎刃而解！

Chloe's benefits (Chloe's 的福運)

During the past week chloe, my granddaughter,  had attended kevin's one hour chanting meeting on Tuesday, a discussion meeting on Thursday and another one on Friday.she attended these meetings with absolutely no complaints.  Then on Saturday she received two good news! These are surely benefits she gets from her Buddhist practice.

below is message Chloe sent to me:

"Hi nana, a few days ago i had begun to worry about some problems that have risen in my registration process for next year of uni. I then emailed an advisor for help.

Another worry i had been having is being put on a long waiting list for uni housing in Sept. In the past few months this2situation has not improved much.

This morning i got a reply from the advisor who has completed my registration for me.

At the same time I also found that I had moved up five places in the waiting list. I am now almost at the top and will have a good chance to get housing

All happened this morning, I am very happy."

Chloe 在上星期六寫了一個短訊给我，說最近困擾她的兩個問題在同一个上午解決了。

1。她在大學登記時有困難，所以她請求大學顧問教她，怎知在星期六上午那顧問告訴她已代她成功登記了。

2。她在申請大學宿舍時，被列入候選名單很低之位，數月以來都無大進展，怎知在星期六得知她提升了五个位置，現在差不多已是候選最高位！

上星期，chloe參加了一小時的唱題會及兩個研討會，而每晚亦和我一起唱題半小時，所以同一天內兩個問題都解決了，真是佛法的實証！

Gardening (我的花園)

On my return to Sydney from Hong Kong, I found that the plants in our front and back yard have grown wild needing pruning, removing or cutting.

thinking its a simple job, i hired a gardener nearby who charges $45 per hour.  i thought this simple job would only take 3-4 hours maximum

the next day this guy (see photo, in green shirt) came and for the first three hours just used his hand to plug the dried leaves from a 'bird of paradise' plant.  i then suggested that he dig out the who shrub and remove.  he said: but its hard to remove because there are bricks next to the shrub!!!

i got quite mad and said: ' the bricks are loose, you can just lift them up and put aside.'  there after he took another hour to lift up just one shrub.  i paid him $200 and asked him to go.  he left a big chunk of  debris in my front yard.

unhappy with what had happened,  i placed an add on the internet for someone else to do the job.  at first, there were no replies.  that night while doing my evening gongyo, i began to chant for a 'peng, lang, jang (cheap, nice and excellent) ' worker to help.  the next morning i got a quote from another source quoting the whole job for $150.

the next day, two guys (see photos) came on time, both very hard working, very pleasant, agreeable and professional, they finsihed off everything in 2 hours, did a few extras for me, clean the fish pond, cleared all rubbish, clean the yards, and stayed within the $150 budget.  i paid them $200 to show my appreciation.

what i want to say is, long ago, a senior sgi member in hong kong told me that : before i do anything, i should pray and chant first, and the results will be like day and night.  its true.

sharing this with all my friends and families, with the hope that they too will remember to chant before taking any action  to bring forth the best results. :)

lydia

最近，我需要有人來清除我們前後院的灌木，小喬木和一些雜草。

想著這是一個簡單的工作，我找到附近  的園丁幫忙,其費用是$ 45小時。我認為這是一個公平的價格，工作可能只要3-4小時。

第二天這個傢伙（綠色襯衫 - 見照片）走過來，在前三個小時，他只是用雙手掐天堂灌木鳥的枯葉。見此情形，我請他掘起和和完全刪除它。他接著說，這是很難因為灌本旁邊還有幾塊磚。

我說：這些磚是鬆動的呀，你可以拉起來放在一邊。之後，他花了一個小時只是掘起一個灌木。我付給他200 $，請他離去。他还留下了所有垃圾在我家前院。

我十分不開心，於是我在互聯網登廣告, 希望找到一個理想的人幫我。起初完全沒有回复。那天晚上，我勤㣔時就祈求一个 ‘平, 靓, 正’ 的人來幫我。第二天早上我放到一個報價, 做所有工作只收$ 150。

第二天，這人帶來了一個同伴，他們都非常勤奮，非常有禮，和專業，他們只用了大约2個小時便完成所有工作，並幫我清理魚塘，清除所有的垃圾，清潔前後園，只收$ 150元。我付給他們$200 ，以代表我的讚賞和感恩。

我想說的是，不久前，在香港SGI的前輩教導我，叫我做任何事情之前，我應該祈求及唱題，其結果就會有天淵之別。這是真的!

我和所有的朋友和家人分享這體驗，希望大家他們也都會記得在採取任何行動之前，先祈求和唱題, 帶出最好的效果。 :)

A gold fish (我的金鱼)

Today i am extremely happy.

On my return to Sydney from Hawaii last week, i noticed that one of the two gold fishes in our pond was stagnant and not moving.  i also found that one of its eyes were all red (see photo) .  i didnt know whether its a disease or injury.
it had not been moving for a few days and was not eating.  i also saw that even if it wanted to eat, it could not find the food. (maybe it has become blind).  i felt really bad because i could see that it was suffering.
i started to chant for it to either regain vitality and be able to eat, or pass away without suffering.  the past two days it had disappeared and i thought it had passed away and i continued to chant for it.

this morning when i tried to feed the other fish, i could this one swimming again and although with some difficulty was starting to find food and eat again!!!!  What a nice big surprise!  : 

Chanting is really very very powerful indeed.

今天我十分開心。上星期我们花園鱼池有一條金鱼眼睛受傷，失去生命力，它看不到，吃不到，完全不動.

看到它痛苦我心痛, 於是我每天為它唱題，祈求它一就回復生命力，一就無痛苦去世，

前兩天它不見了，我已為它已去了，便在勤行時為它谂南無妙法蓮華经

怎知今天它又出現了，並開始活動及食鱼糧
題目力量真不可思議！nam myo ho renge kyo

為什麼我們的祈求不能實現？

我們許多人都有祈求不能實現的經驗。

實踐日蓮大聖人佛法的目的是使在我們日常的生活和我們的宿業能有一個重大的改變。如果這沒有發生，我們都想知道為什麼。

大聖人不是曾承諾我們的禱告一定會有效的嗎？我們所有的祈禱都一定有效，但有時答案是“不！” 因為有時如果我們祈禱的東西，是對我們不好的話，答案就會是“不。”

在佛教中，“源”或“力”是在我們自身生命裏。佛教祈禱是導向內心。我們從我們自己的佛性之內尋求援助。

在佛教中，人類本質上是有價值和良好的。我們擁有佛性。所以佛教的祈禱是充滿了責任和感謝之心。

我們的禱告態度應該是要我們在自己的生活裏去嘗試在泥濘的沼澤採集蓮花一樣。向御本尊唱題能打開我們的眼睛讓我們看到蓮花。要能看到我們生命深處是非常困難的，大聖人教導我們祈禱去打開了我們的眼睛，令我們發掘到我們所擁有的寶藏。我們自身的佛性是在生命中深黑暗的倉庫裏.

在我們生命完不僅存著令我們的痛苦的因，同時也包含了解決我們的所有問題的答業。如果你向外祈禱，你的祈求將不會實現.

佛教接受生命會有問題發生這個個事實，當事情發生了，我們痛苦。但我們的苦難能帶來的消除苦難的渴望。每個人都有解除痛苦的慾望。這種願望能激勵我們採取行動，目的是要消除我們的痛苦。然而，因為我們缺少智慧和存著迷妄，儘管我們有誠意，但卻採取了錯誤的行動，。我們因此種下了一個不好的原，而不是一個解決困難良好的因。

如果你的生命充滿了迷妄，無論你多麼真誠或努力的工作你都會不快樂.  您將繼續在亳不知情下種下和不好的因，並延續你的業力，這將導致進一步的痛苦。你消除你的痛苦的願望會升得更高。這就是為什麼有時，好像你越是試圖改變某種情況, 而那情況就會變得更糟糕。

當我們痛苦時，我們就可以向御本尊面前唱迥祈求智慧，令我們看到我們痛難的根源並做出正確的行動。智慧能使我們能夠打破這個因果的枷鎖. 如果你不求智慧，你不會找到它
 

我們在生活裏時常會發覺在走同一樣的路，作出相同的決定，做同樣的事情。但我們從來沒有醒來, 發現我們永遠在兜圈子，總是回到同一個地方回來。

我們向御本尊祈求智慧和力量，令我們能解決我們的問題,。我們應該有那種堅定的祈求去達成願量。

相處之道

有人曾經問戶田先生：

「 我與先生相處不來 ，是要繼續忍耐呢？還是分開好呢？」

戶田先生：「我不能插手管夫妻之間的事...，不是勸你不要分手，也不是叫你要分手，想告訴你的是，如果不超越必須與這種會讓你痛苦的丈夫在一起的宿業，即使分手了，日後仍然會遭遇同樣的痛苦。如果是這樣的話，那跟現在的丈夫又有什麼不同？」

父母感情融洽當然最好。可是雙親離異也不能斷言小孩就會變壞， 反而，很多人 就是 從這種困境當中茁壯成長。

關鍵在於要站在自己的立場，深深自省 ，徹底挑戰自己的人間革命，然後再做決定。只要擁有強盛的信心，最後必定獲得幸福。不管遇到什麼事都不退轉，只要抱持進取、貫徹廣宣流布布的信心，最後一定會獲勝。只要明白這一點就夠了。

萬一離婚了就不要耿耿於懷，就當作得到寶貴經驗，比以往更認真廣布即可。 同時也希望週圍的人給予溫暖 的關懷。即使成為單親家庭也不必感到寂寞，要抱著『可以 結交更多友情』 這種寬大的胸襟來面對人生。

夫妻之間 最重要的是愛情與慈悲， 此外 ，就看雙方是否能夠一起唱題，追求最高的人生目的與幸福。

雖說是夫妻，兩人原本也是外人，所以 要互相忍耐，努力理解對方，否則家庭無法圓滿。

共同生活當中，要並肩保護家庭，努力工作、讓小孩受教育等等，都是『為人盡心盡力』的作業，這當中需要靠『忍耐』兩字。

『幸福』要有忍耐作為後盾。很多人夢想能夠擁有不用忍耐的幸福，那畢竟是夢， 是童話世界，是幼稚、安逸的人生 ，所以，才會有許多夫妻關係破裂。 原本 一心想追求幸福， 卻淪於不幸。

攜手努力 『一起建設家庭吧！』彼此忍讓『 一起前進吧！』 夫妻要有這樣的共識，才能孕育真正的愛情。愛情是要歷久彌深的， 無法加深愛情，只能停留在『喜歡、不喜歡』的層次。

應讓家庭的氣氛明朗。下決心只要有自己在， 不論何時整個家都會明朗起來。只要自己成為太陽，世上便無陰霾；只要有一個人成為太陽，就能照耀全家。

       

           譯自《大白蓮華》 /聖教新聞

妹妹 - Dec. 2015

昨天晚上我和妹妹做完勤行之後，我去樓下gym 做運動一小時，回家後竟然見妹妹还在唱題.

原來我走了後，她还continue 唱了一小時題目，我对她説，你如果以后都是这样信心，你將會越來越好

話口未完，她今天又得到了大生意

！

其實看一个人現在修行的恣態，已可知他未來！这是因果法則！